Question:

Hi, my DOB is 25.05.1987.i love a guy. Everything was fine between us until a day when we fought badly in which i abused him. His is hurt now. He broke all contacts with me. It has been 3 months since we have not spoken. I want to know whether he still loves me? Will he forgive and come back to me in future? Please help.His DOB is 08.11.1990.

www.askthespirit.com Answer:

meditate-to-find-answersDearest S,

The question is not If he loves you or if he is coming back. These question come from an ego center view and because you are now feeling that you have lost someone, you Love, you are trying to see if he still loves you or coming back, why don’t you consider changing your questioning and maybe ask this NOW:

Do I really love him?

I am really ready to forgive myself for abusing him?

Have I understood my mistake?

Can I feel how he felt when he was abused and why did I do it?

Am I ready to call him and ask for forgiveness for abusing him and ask him to come back and make another try?

Stay still and meditate if you wish bring your awareness inside of you and try to find answers to your new questioning that will lead you to your NEW path in finding happiness in your life.

Good Luck!!!

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Question:

Hi,

Thanks for your response. I want to know the answer whether he would forgive me in future or not?. I am ready to ask for forgiveness and realise my fault too. But he is not giving me a chance to say sorry. He has put my number in blacklist. I need a way out. i need to know whats going on in his mind. Does he still love me that one day he would be ready to forgive me? Please help.

Answer:

Dear S,

You say ‘I am ready to ask for forgiveness and realize my fault”

Does that mean you haven’t realized your fault yet? But you are READY  to Do it?  And what are the motives behind this realization?  What I am trying to say is that you have to REALIZE YOUR MISTAKE FULLY HERE AND NOW and not just be READY  for it, realizing it fully and cutting off all the negative energy that has been created between you two will allow in a magical way for you to come together if you are meant to be together in the first place.  If you REALIZE YOUR MISTAKE FULLY AND ASK FOR FORGIVENESS first from yourself and the other person does not come to you then it wasn’t meant to BE and you must carry on to a new more exiting experiences in your life,

Eimaste, always
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Good Luck!!!

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Question:

Hi,

Thanks for your prompt response. I really need your help with this.

One last doubt. You told me that if i realize my fault fully then if we are meant to be we will be otherwise i’l have to move on. But the very reason for me to contact you was to know whether things would work out in future or not as you can predict the future. I was told by two psychics that we are not destined together. I wanted to confirm that is it so? So i contacted you as i am totally devastated and have noone who could help me get my answer. I realise my fault totally. But two psychics have told me that he wont come back to me unless a spell would be casted on him. Is it real? I mean can a psychic tell me this?

and yes i really need to know that you told me was not a prediction or a reading right? I mean you did not mention what will happen. I am sorry for irritating you but these questions are troubling me. Please guide.

Thanks and regards,

S.

www.askthespirit.com Answer:

Dearest S,

I sympathize with your concern but there is no predestined or premade future and someone can go and see the result tomorrow of what life will be. Life is not a movie but we do, in a way make our future as we go along and this can be changed with every thought and feeling we make at every given moment.  So I will not tell you that this and this will happen because nobody knows but some can speculate according to what you are thinking right now but that can change at any given moment.  And if some psychic tells you that this will happen and you believe it you might create it but if you don’t you might not.  I hope I am clear enough.  I want you to make a list of some of the attributes that a Lover must have for you and you can add some more everyday if you want and look at it every night before you go to bed.  Let your imagination create and attract the right person for you as you go along every day looking at your list you CAN also imagine the face and body.  We are the CREATORS of our lives, so CREATE and have fun enjoying it.

Eimaste, always
www.askthespirit.com

Good Luck!!!

You can write us here for all your questions – info@askthespirit.com

Question:

Hi,

Thanks for your prompt response. I really need your help with this.
One last doubt. You told me that if i realise my fault fully then if
we are meant to be we will be otherwise i’l have to move on. But the
very reason for me to contact you was to know whether things would
work out in future or not as you can predict the future. I was told by
two psychics that we are not destined together. I wanted to confirm
that is it so? So i contacted you as i am totally devastated and have
noone who could help me get my answer. I realise my fault totally. But
two psychics have told me that he wont come back to me unless a spell
would be casted on him. Is it real? I mean can a psychic tell me this?
and yes i really need to know that you told me was not a prediction or
a reading right? I mean you did not mention what will happen. I am
sorry for irritating you but these questions are troubling me. Please
guide.

Thanks and regards,
S.

www.askthespirit.com Answer:

As I have clearly stated nobody can predict the future, it is just speculation of what you are feeling right now that these feelings and thoughts can create the next moment and the next moment can create the next. I was very clear, I cannot tell you what the future will be because it has not been written yet and it can change at any given moment.  When people are trying to predict the future what they are actually doing is writing the future with their thoughts.  We are spiritual creative beings and our thoughts and feelings are very strong and they can actually shape and create our future.  So if you keep feeling negative thoughts of lost and detachment from this man you will get just that,  if you feel connected and love for this man you will get just that, but why not consider that maybe your true lover is someone else and is waiting for you to make the right thoughts to attract him, so creation is limitless and start creating thoughts and feelings of abundance and true love.  For the time been you are STACK if this person will want you or not, where is the abundance and true love in such a way of thinking?

Stavros Santis
Eimaste always in love